Saturday, March 17, 2007

ah, dear dad

my dad sends out a daily journal. something to pass the time and keep folks abreast of the happenings in his life. he began it as an excercise in processing and sharing while undergoing early [read: forced] retirement from sales, whence he began following his bliss and becoming [eventually] a general contractor. dad is where i get my love for words and ability to string them together.

yesterday dad mentioned the giggle-able wearing of green carnations by eager co-eds and how his professor used to chuckle because he knew that oscar wilde pre-empted the now more infamous pink triangle or a flag, don't forget:

The Labrys
The labrys is less popular now that it once was, even though its connection to lesbianism and women began thousands of years ago. The labrys is basically a double bladed axe or hatchet which can be used for both harvesting and as a weapon. The first labrys is believed to have been created over 8,000 years ago. It was favored by tribes of female Amazons that roamed the area around what is now Kazakstan in central Asia. It has also been linked to the early town of Catal Huyuk in what is now Turkey around 6,000 BCE as a tool for clearing ground. Catal Huyuk was a peaceful town which worshipped the Earth goddess and prospered without conflict for 1,500 years.
An ancient civilization on the island Crete in the Mediterranean Sea also held the labrys in high standing. Little was known about the Minoan civilization (it lasted from around 3,000 to 1,100 BCE) except myths until archaeologists began excavating relics from Crete's pre-Minoan era around the beginning of the 20th century. The most amazing discovery on the island was the palace of Knossos, believed to be the royal palace, along with a 35,000 square foot maze of rooms and hallways. This maze was prolifically decorated with a double-axe motif, especially the principal reception room. The term labyrinth is derived from labrys. This site is believed to be linked to the myth of the minotaur. [In Greek mythology, Crete was the home of the tyrant King Minos, son of Zues and the mortal woman Europa. Minos broke an oath to Poseidon, who had guaranteed his kingship, and in revenge the sea god caused Minos's wife to fall in love with a bull. The offspring of their unnatural union was the Minotaur, a monstrous creature, part man and part bull, who lived at the center of the labyrinthine maze in the Palace of Minos at Knossos. Every year the Minotaur killed fourteen Athenians- seven girls and seven boys- exacted as an annual tribute by Minos. Eventually, the Athenian hero Theseus killed the Minotaur and was rescued by Minos's daughter from the labyrinth. But when Theseus sailed home to Athens, he forgot the prearranged signal to his father, King Aegeus, indicating that he was returning safely. Believing his son dead, Aegeus threw himself into the sea and drowned. The Aegean Sea is named after the unfortunate king. (Adams 80)]
The Minoan society, although possessing both a king and queen near its end, was predominantly matriarchal. Their religion centered around a bare-breasted Great Goddess who is believed to have been a protector of women. This goddess is often shown holding snakes in her hands, a symbol of fertility and agriculture, and surrounded by female worshippers with double axes which were used for tilling soil. Preserved frescos from the time period also tend to show more girls than boys, usually in such dangerous sports as bull jumping (bulls were also a reoccurring theme in Minoan art).
The double axe quickly spread across Europe, becoming popular with the Etruscans, the Gauls, the Druids, and the Scandinavians. The labrys kept its religious connotation even when it was adopted by other cultures, having been scratched into a good many surfaces during pagan times. When the Roman Empire came along, the plow replaced the labrys as far as farming went, but it remained a formidable weapon. The labrys began to be seen less and less religiously, and soon took on the name "battleaxe" instead. From there it was passed through successive generations of war-torn Europe until it was replaced in popularity by the sword.
The labrys was resurrected as a female symbol in the 1970s by a number of lesbian and feminist organizations. It's popularity grew when articles about its origins were published in feminist literature of the time. Today, the labrys has been superseded by other symbols, but can still be seen adorning jewelry and women's specialty stores.

While hunting down info i found this gem for lingo. woo-hoo for homos!

here's to the Irish!

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Thursday, December 07, 2006

a tale to make dad's proud


House Mate [not that kind of housemate, i'd tell ya she was] and I dutifully did everything our dads taught us how to do. we tried pliers, wrenches, asked directions from the guys at the auto place where the new battery was purchased, pulled out both sets of dad-approved tools and even used coco-cola to break down the corrossion on the battery bolt. we couldn't get the damn thing to move. hours later, dinner made, eaten cold, we tried again.

and then we called it quits. we'd done everything we knew how [including putting the car in neutral and pushing it back and forth over the ice ruts into the safety of the garage, where the car died just before entering to park]. i made brownies for the lovely man who helped us pick up the back end to get it over the last ice hump.

HM's dad lives in the burbs. he came out after work and brought a connector to replace the corroded bolt end. "you think this will do it?" [you're asking me? i'm a nurse, not a mechanic.]

there is a mixed emotion of joy, pride and oh-shit at the end of this story.

the battery could not be removed by the dad. the girls did everything correctly, they tried everything the dad tried, they even tried coca-cola. there was no switch they overlooked or button they forgot to press. the car needed a car doctor. we felt good that we did what we were supposed to do.

odd to feel so redeemed when something is so broken.

at any rate. love to you.

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